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Official Guide To Bad Girl Behavior

BAD GIRL 101

Everyone who's been in the dating world for more than five minutes knows that you've got to get thru a lot of creepers, douche bags, gold diggers, and or clingers before you find the right fit for your particular passion pallet.  But what if there were readable signs; a relationship road map if you will, to detect the undesirables before you've become victim to a devastating dating disaster?  Well, I may have found the link to the INK your crush is donning!  These well tested tattoo tips will help you detect a quality match and thrust you toward your desired destination of compatible couple dom.

Tramp Stamps, Ass Antlers, Collar Rockers, Tribal’s, and Sleeves!: Tattoos are used to express individuality, honor a relative, get over a break-up, or help you unleash your sexiness in an unconventional way.  Since tattoos are a direct reflection of the person who's rocking them; why not use these fantastically expressive skin fetishes to their full tell-all potential?  Listen up LOVERS because the mental morsels you're about to ingest could save you from a superficial blow to your relationship ego!   I'm going to uncover and expose you to the truth behind these titillating TATT'S;  giving you the tools you'll need to decode that ferociously fine lady or dude you've got your dirty little eye on!

GAMBLING/ POKER:  If a guy has a barrage of gambling tattoos all over his body then chances are you've got a gambler on your hands.  This also means that he's a risk taker and can be very spontaneous and unpredictable.  If you like that sort of thing, then rock on sister!  If stability and predictability is what you desire then you should probably fold and walk away from this daring dude.

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Official Guide To Bad Girl Behavior

BAD GIRL 101

 So I’ve been keeping a close eye on my inbox LADIES….and I’ve noticed a slight theme here.  The relationship questions are rampant.  It could be a post V-day hangover flooding your brains with all of these woe is me, why me questions; but I digress. A promise is a promise and I’m a slave to my word, so I’m going to lay down my most tantric teasers and invaluable insights and hope that some of it will seep into those pretty little heads of yours. 

In many words and many ways this question seemed the most popular: “How can a successful woman land a successful man when she’s constantly attracting losers?” Well, Honey the truth is the losers generally have the least to lose and therefor the most to gain.  Part of the dating game is learning to weed out the undesirables as soon as possible. My advice to you my successfully single vixen is to know yourself!  Know who you are and what you want before you try and share this life with someone else.  No one wants a hot mess, and just because you’re successful in your business life doesn’t necessarily mean your emotional life isn’t a wreck.  If you’ve got your ish together both in the business and pleasure department then perhaps it’s where you’re meeting these tasty train wrecks that’s the problem. It is said that couples generally meet while going to school, work, or church.  If you’re not in school, you’re not religious, and you don’t want to have any inter office drama, then where to meet a quality guy is kind of a conundrum.     Bars and Clubs are for hooking up and getting drunk…END OF STORY.  If you want a quality guy you’ve got to look in quality places.  Where those places are depends on what interests you.  Like art?  Head to the museum, Enjoy toning those leg muscles?  Join a running group.  If you don’t have anything in common with this dream guy, then what’s the point?!

Now don’t fret gents; this isn’t going to be a Pheromone fest.  I’ve got an insider who’s giving my lovelies a VIP tour into the workings of the man brain.  Prepare yourself ladies, because he’s not holding anything back.  Your feelings are going to need to take a back seat or consider yourself relationship road kill!

M.T.’s  P.O.V

Ok, first off…”success” is a B.S. word. You can have a 6-figure salary, live in Baldwin Park and drive a sporty “My Vagina Doesn’t Smell Like a Japanese Fish Market” Mercedes….but you only attract what you put out there. Success is in how you carry yourself as a human being and the friends you elect to surround yourself with. So, first thing: if you’re attracting “losers”…chances are, you are a loser in life too. Guys who are worth their weight in gold will fall head over heels for a girl who is NOTHING short of themselves. If you put on a half-assed “front” or attitude or whatever, we see right through it. Now, guys categorized as “losers” don’t give a damn if you have that force field up or not. They just want to screw you.  It’s not Chinese algebra here…it’s like if you eat Five Guys twice a day, you’ll get fat. If you have more issues than Time Magazine, and no desire to put in the effort to find out who you really are…then welcome to the never ending vicious circle of dating idiots.

I’m not asking that you quit your job or sell your car…I’m saying that when it REALLY comes down to it, a deep emotional and physical connection is what will make or break you. But to do so, you have to allow yourself to be exposed. If you can’t open yourself up to someone, then what’s the point? It may be scary, but you have to give that right person the ABILITY to hurt you before you can truly love.  Now, if you’re just fake, a relentless bitch, or straight up dumb as bricks, then I have nothing for you. For example, I make $45,000 a year. Modest living, but a sugar-mamma would be nice. You could be Scarlet Johansson and make billions, be super-hot, make awesome grilled cheese sandwiches and say I don’t have to be faithful to you…but if I can’t hold a conversation with you for more than 4 minutes, I’d rather eat a bullet. Moral of the story: success in life is not measured by you…it’s obvious to everyone around you in how you walk, talk and live. You may think you’re awesome, and everyone else around you is mental…but chances are, sweet-cheeks, it’s you.

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Official Guide To Bad Girl Behavior

BAD GIRL 101

Aahh...Valentines Day: Either a romantic oasis filled with flowers and chocolates or the bitter bane of your existence.  If you've got yourself a rockin man who treats you like a princess and showers you with heart shaped treats then you've definitely got yourself a keeper!  Remember guys...it really isn't about how much you spend, but how much thought was spent on it that matters most.  For those of you who haven't found that perfect match don't fret my pretties; there is no reason to get all down and out.  Single or not, I've got a few titillating tid- bits to help you get the most out of this controversial day of delight and depression.  

  Let's start with my single ladies!  Just because you don't have a special someone doesn't mean that you are doomed.  As promised I went all over the city putting myself in some interesting and outrageous positions hoping to help you get out of your self inflicted V-day coma!  Now is a good time to try things that you'd otherwise decline.  Donning my most appropriate statement dress and fierce red pumps, my bad girl in crime Carolanne and I headed to Stigma for some flirtatious fun.  Speed dating isn't for everyone, but it is a great way to meet new people and expand your social circle.  If you find yourself stuck with an undesirable...trust me, it will happen; then now would be a good time to perfect your speed dating alias.  Fake name, Fake profession; work it out girl!  You've got nothing to lose.   

Now if you aren't yet brave enough to put yourself in my sexy stilettos than you have my permission to play it safe....for now.  Grab the girls and hit the town in your most sexy come hither dress for dinner and drinks,  Have a chic flick Night, or an Anti-Valentines Day party has proven to be  the perfect Hallmark Holiday distraction.  If you don't have someone to love..."LOVE" yourself. Wink Wink.

For my fabulous couples out there who are looking for something new to keep the desire fire burning; I've picked up a few tricks for you as well!  Ladies, don’t forget your man!   Grab a pair of tickets to his favorite sports team and take him on a romantic sport filled weekend where he's sure not to strike out.  ;) For something a little more risque find your best breast enhancing corset, long silky fish-net stockings, and sexy stilettos; then get your cute butts down to Diva Doll Fitness and Pole!  My Bad Girl beauties and I went to their Burlesque/chair class where you can learn the most provocative tricks and stimulating moves that will unleash anyone's inner sex kitten.  This class will give you all the right moves to perform a perfect lap dance for your man.  

Even if you're single there is something for everyone.  Check out their fitness schedule online.   For a limited time only for my fabulous bad girl readers;  Diva Doll Fitness and Pole has provided us with an opportunity to be sexy and save! 

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Official Guide To Bad Girl Behavior

BAD GIRL 101

 Those impromptu glances, the hot breath of suggestive banter whispered in your ear, and let’s not forget the deliciously intoxicating sexual tension, so hot and thick that you barely make it to the bedroom!!  Yeah, that's what we're talking about today kiddies.  Hooking up!  Hooking up is as common socially as ripped jeans on rockstars. A majority of the population has had a one night stand scenario at least once in their lives.  For the sexual deviants of the world; well, practice does make perfect now doesn't it?! ;) With that being said I think it's time we discuss the low down dirty truth when it comes to these random acts of thrust and LUST!

Flirtation, Lust, Passion, and...Romance?  Umm, one of these things is definitely not like the others.  Guys and Dolls, when you choose to hook up; romance is not part of the picture.  Do NOT try and make it into something that it's not.  Forget the fantasy and let’s get real please.    There will be no breakfast in bed, no last names, and no spending the day together after.   How many times has a hook up actually manifested itself into a relationship?  Exactly!  I'm not saying that it never happens, but understand that you’re not the exception, you're the rule. Now, I've collaborated with some of my most sexy man friends so that I can give you these well tested tips on how to successfully hit it and quit it.

1.  Keep it Casual: No serious convo's or personal drama please. He's your sexual outlet, not your therapist.